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Choosing an Engagement Ring that Denotes the Success of your Marriage

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EliteDaily.com says, “The bigger your engagement ring, the more likely you are to get divorced.” Could it be true? Emory University conducted a study to ascertain the relationship between wedding expenses and marriage duration. Their study shows that women who want their men to spend more than $4,000 on a ring are 1.3 times more likely to have a failed marriage. This is because forcing lavish engagements can lead to stress about wedding expenses, which can lead to petty fights at a very early stage, causing a rocky relationship.

Do not Put a Price Tag on the Relationship

Does it mean that you are never allowed to pick a $4,000 ring? In the yester years, it was believed that the shiny quality of the ring reflected the couple’s success, but today women have started to view it as a price tag of the relationship. What you need to remember is that you should not weigh your relationship and your partner's commitment solely based on the ring. Do not force your partner to go beyond his means for an engagement ring if he cannot.

Your partner should not think material facets mean more to you than the relationship (this works both ways). However, if your man volunteers to spend a bit more on the rock, then you are in luck. Else, know that he is doing his best.

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The Rings Symbolizes Much More...

It is not uncommon for a man from a hefty fortune to allow his women to pick a ring that represents his wealth. However, women who care more about a man's wealth are eventually believed to feel unhappy at some point. According to research conducted by a Michigan State University graduate, Randal Olsen, couples who place wealth above their relationship are more likely to be divorced. A marriage based on superficial reasons will not have a lasting bond and will soon begin to lose its sheen.

So, the ring's importance should mean something to you, like love, togetherness, marriage, trust and friendship to name a few. Ascertain what the ring means to you before you decide on a setting.

Think Unconventional

Engagement rings and wedding bands need not be swathed in dazzling white diamonds. Choose something that represents you. Meaning, do not go in for that 'Princess Cut' just because the girl next door chose it. For instance, an unconventional design can represent the different facts of your relationship. Margaret Ann Lembo says that a dash of color can represent your vibrant and fun personality. The color red can represent your relationship's vibrancy and passion, whereas dark blue stones represent wise and intuitive personalities.

Have you Considered Splitting it?

Recent trends reveal that many young couples have considered sharing the cost of the engagement ring. This shows a positive attitude towards the relationship and the equality of the couple in the marriage. Wanting a $6,000 ring does not represent a fallout if you are willing to chip in. It seems only fair because both partners earn and also are active parts of the decision making process. Samantha Daniels, professional matchmaker, says that such a "team attitude" will translate to all aspects of the marriage, bringing both the partners closer every step of the way, leading to a successful marriage. After all, today, marriage has become an equitable partnership, so going Dutch on your $6,000 rings will only bring you closer. Do not think of it as unromantic, look at it as carving your own traditions for a simple and strong tomorrow.

Dorotha William

Dorotha William is the marketing manager at Lucky Horn Gifts, an online store for handmade and personalized gifts for every occasion....(Read More)

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